Acts of Service
Acts of service can mean a variety of things, but mainly it means understanding what your significant other likes and making that happen. For example, trying to please someone by doing something you know they’d like to do, or more importantly doing something they would want you to do. Perhaps that means cooking a meal or setting the table for your loved one. Maybe it’s as easy as taking out the trash before you’re asked.”They require thought, planning, time, effort and energy. If done with a positive spirit, they are indeed expressions of love,” Chapman explains.
For this specific language remember that actions do speak louder than words.
This language is one of the more straight-forward ones. It is a simple idea of giving to your loved one and making them feel loved. No, it’s not about buying them expensive jewelry or spending a large amount of money on a lavish honeymoon — although those are very nice — it’s about showing someone that you took the time to think about them.